Thursday, February 21, 2008

When to Stop

While every expedition requires planning and planning requires meetings, staff meetings can be one of the more challenging aspects of youth ministry. Yes, they provide communication amongst the staff. Just as often, they provide miscommunication or redundant commentary. On a particular afternoon when you are scrambling to complete the preparations for a day of reflection so you can have a day off, circular discussions at a staff meeting prove exceptionally difficult to accept.


Despite the staff meeting, I was able to polish off the final preparations for the day of reflection we have scheduled with the young adults this weekend. Reflection booklets are copied (the saddle stapler and I do not get along). The plastic tub of supplies is packed and ready to go. The highlight of this story is that I actually get to take tomorrow off - a true day of rest.


Therein lies one of the most difficult challenges to the jungle exploration. There is always more to do, more to see, more... However, there is only a limited amount of time and energy. Making the conscious choice that it is time to stop - to spend time with family, to see friends, to read that book, to take that nap, to disengage - proves so difficult.


Most of those in ministry truly see what they do as a vocation; they follow the call with great passion. When you feel so passionately about something it seems wrong to put it aside. You want to give 110%. However, it is irresponsible and ultimately only detrimental to the very ministry you feel so passionate about pursuing.


So tomorrow I shall enjoy a day of being a 'normal person' - household chores, shopping for some new sheet music, dinner and a movie with a good friend. With a day of rest and relaxation I will be ready for the chaotic weekend of work that awaits.

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